Openers that get replies
Pick 1 opener, paste it, then follow the matching reply path. Keep it fun and respectful.
Direct plan
Two options: coffee this week or taco taste test this weekend. Which sounds more fun?
Follow ups
- If yes: Let us do it. Wed 6:30 or Sat 1 pm?
- If maybe: Quick question: Thu 6:30 or Sat 1 pm?
Dog line
Your dog looks like the CEO. What is her policy on park dates?
Follow ups
- If yes: Approved. I will bring treats. Sat afternoon?
- If slow: I am booking the board meeting for Sunday strolls.
Music and dessert
Pick the playlist and I will pick dessert. Deal?
Follow ups
- If yes: Chocolate or fruit?
- If maybe: Mini test. 2000s throwbacks or 90s R and B?
Dinner challenge
Best quick dinner in our city is blank. Change my mind.
Follow ups
- If yes: Challenge accepted. Wed or Thu?
- If slow: I will bring a tie breaker dessert.
Travel hook
Your travel pics are elite. Which trip would you relive for one day?
Follow ups
- If yes: Let us recreate a piece of it Saturday. Coffee and pastry flight?
- If maybe: Quick follow up: which day works better, Sat or Sun?
Coffee order
Coffee order? I am a cappuccino with a side of banana bread.
Follow ups
- If yes: Twins. Thurs 6 pm at our local spot?
- If slow: I will take that as surprise me.
Teach me your hobby
You plus the hobby on your profile is my jam. Beginner lesson for me this weekend?
Follow ups
- If yes: I will trade you gelato knowledge.
- If maybe: Quick follow up: what day are you usually free?
Pancakes or waffles
Spontaneous quiz. Pancakes or waffles?
Follow ups
- If yes: Winner buys coffee on Saturday.
- If slow: I will settle this with a taste test.
Story prompt
Your smile says good stories. Pick a topic. Travel fail or best concert?
Follow ups
- If yes: You start. I will match the energy.
- If maybe: Text me your 1 sentence version and I will match it.
Movie or cook night
We would get along. Kitchen experiment night or movie with takeout?
Follow ups
- If yes: Fri 7 or Sun 6?
- If slow: I owe you the best popcorn recipe.
FAQ
When should I ask her out after she replies?
Within 5 to 15 messages if the vibe is good. Keep it simple and offer 2 options for time or activity.
What do I do if she says maybe?
Reply with 1 easy next step: suggest 2 specific times or a smaller plan like coffee. Do not debate or over explain.
What if she replies slowly?
Send 1 light follow up that matches the opener tone, then stop. If she is interested, she will re engage.
Should I switch to a phone call?
Default to text. Only suggest a call if she already seems comfortable with it or asks for it.
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