How to Approach a Woman

"Seduction: FAQ on Women"

Q: Where can I met women?

A: Just about anywhere. Location is really not too important. The obviously blatant pick up places like clubs and bars will have more potentially available women but that scene is also difficult to succeed in if you don't have very good pick up skills. When starting out, you can use those places as practice. Think of it as a game where winning or loosing doesn't matter - it's the fun of seeing what responses you get that's important. Anywhere you find a woman that attracts you is a great opportunity to say something new and different. Study the responses, adjust for past results, and eventually you'll see that women can be met anywhere - the trick is attracting them once you find them.

Q: How do I approach women?

A: Quickly and without hesitation. The more you think about what you want to say and how you want to say it, the more likely it is that you'll discourage yourself from the actual approach. You must act so quickly that you don't have time to think. Say the first thing that comes to your mind. If nothing comes to your mind say "Hi, I noticed something about you..." Then pause and wait for her to say "What? What did you notice?" (women are intensely curious when such a comment is made to them). The few seconds it takes her to get impatient and ask you what you noticed is probably enough time for you to take a closer look at her and actually find something to say. "I noticed you're about halfway through the book you're reading - what's it about?" or "I noticed the deep tan you have - did you just come back from a vacation?" Whatever - anything that could possibly lead to a continued conversation. The more answers you're able to get out of her, the more questions you end up being able to ask until eventually a full blown conversation takes place and you get a better opportunity to create rapport with her - a connection.

Q: How can I hide my nervousness around a woman? How can I fix my shyness?

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Q: How does height (or generally the way one looks, or how old one is) influence success with a woman?

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Q: How can I build and improve my self-confidence and charm?

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Q: Do commercially sold pheromones work to help attract women?

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Q: What is wrong with me?

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Q: When is the best time to hug, kiss, or shake hands after meeting a woman?

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